Assertive Communication
Use assertive communication — expressing needs, opinions, and boundaries clearly and respectfully without being aggressive (pushy/demanding) or passive (giving in/staying silent) — including saying no when something doesn't feel right
Typical age: 9–11 years
“If friends want your child to do something they're uncomfortable with — like excluding another child or breaking a rule — can your child say 'I don't want to do that' firmly but politely?”
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Needs first
- Positive Self-Talk
Assertive communication benefits from positive self-talk skills
- Communication VocabularyREQUIRED
Assertive communication requires understanding the trio: assertive vs passive vs aggressive
- Resolving Disagreements with FriendsREQUIRED
Assertive communication builds on basic conflict resolution
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- Giving and Receiving Feedback
Giving feedback benefits from assertive communication
- Peer Pressure and Resisting It
Resisting peer pressure benefits from assertive communication skills
- Social Cues and Group DynamicsREQUIRED
Advanced friendship skills depends on earlier cooperation concepts
- Self-Reflection in RelationshipsREQUIRED
Reflecting on social patterns builds on assertive communication skills